Jen Pollock Michel's first book, Teach Us to Want
, changed me. It was one of the first times I'd read a rigorous, personal, practical and thoughtful book on faith from a woman.
As a mother to 5, Jen's stories were relatable, but relating wasn't the end game. Her first book on the tangled nature of desire and faith was a gift and won the 2015 Christianity Today award for the Best Book of the Year.
Jen Pollock Michel has now birthed a second book today, Keeping Place: Reflections on the Meaning of Home
. Friends, it's a thoughtful, gorgeous book full of tight prose, meaty stories, and much historical research to situate a discussion on home, longing, and the work we do today -- including doing the dishes and the laundry.
I have a treat for you today: a Q+A with the author. Stay tuned for an interview of us together coming soon!
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Why write a book about home? Is it your experience as a wife and mother that most informs this book or something else?
There’s no doubt that my experience of making a home for my family these past twenty years has informed the writing of this book. But Keeping Place
isn’t only meant for wives and mothers. In fact, I think the longing for home is a human
longing. It’s not particular to women. Men feel it, too—even if they might characterize that longing in different ways.
I’ve spent my entire life searching for home. Partially this is because I’ve experienced so much loss in my life: the premature death of my father, the suicide of my brother, a sometimes emotionally distant relationship with my mother. It’s also true that home has been elusive simply because I’ve been so geographically mobile, somehow ending up in Toronto as an American expat.
These life experiences springboard a Scriptural exploration throughout the book. I want to hear what God has to say about the longings for and losses of home.
What’s the challenge of writing a book about home for both women and men?
I recently had coffee with a young woman from church, and at the end of our conversation, she said that she looked forward to my book on “homemaking.” Later, I couldn’t help but wonder if she imagined a book of recipes, table setting ideas, and the best way to organize a linen closet.
I think that’s the fear: that men will see a book on the topic of home and immediately think it’s a book meant for their wives or mothers or sisters. That’s why the history of home is a really fundamental part of this book (chapter 2). I want to trace how home was once a shared space for residence and commerce and industry up until the Industrial Revolution. That historical analysis might sound sort of heady, but it’s really meant to provide a backdrop for the way that we read the Bible, which never talks about “home” as something which women are solely responsible for.
What books have influenced you to keep a wider perspective in your home-keeping?
I really do see Keeping Place
as having resonance with a lot of the great work that’s being done on theology of place. In particular, I really appreciated the early chapters of Craig Bartholomew’s Where Mortals Dwell,
because it makes the case for God’s good gift of place. I have also loved books like C. Christopher Smith and John Pattison’s Slow Church
, which I believe help us see the role that the local church can play to “keep place” in our cities. And a perennial favorite is also Kathleen Norris’s The Quotidian Mysteries.
Beyond that, it’s always been important to me to read outside of my own experiences: books like Kent Annan’s Slow Kingdom Coming
and D.L. Mayfield’s Assimilate or Go Home
would be two examples.
How do you combine motherhood, writing and speaking? How does your home-making life practically work in the day-to-day?
A lot of my day is taken up with the practical care of my family, especially because I’m the primary parent for our five kids. And even though I’m the first person to try and find help when I need it (I pay someone to clean my house, someone else to do virtual assistant work for me), there’s also something irreducible about the labor that love requires. I have five kids and a very busy executive husband, which means that my work life is sometimes more constrained than I would like it to be because of my responsibilities at home. I can’t accept every speaking invitation I want to. I can’t write on every topic that interests me. I can’t stay connected on social media (even if truthfully, I don’t really want to). But I think this is what it means to be human. We are limited.
Who do you hope is reading this book, and what do you hope they will gain?
I suppose it’s fair to say that women like me will probably read the book, and I hope that they’ll come earlier to the realization that their home is a shared responsibility with their husbands. This “sharing” benefits children, for sure—who need both mom and dad fully engaged at home. It also gives women permission when other God-given callings sometimes call us away from home.
But I hope it’s not just women like me reading the book. I’d love to see women and men who aren’t married, who aren’t parents, find ways they can have and make home today, especially in their local churches and communities. I’d like for people to catch a vision for justice in the world—to see that the gospel isn’t solely a spiritual endeavor to save souls but that it also inspires practices of caring for physical bodies and environments.
And if I could just dream a bit, I’d love for someone on the margins of faith, maybe even on the outside looking in, to read this book and start making sense of the life and death, resurrection and return of Jesus Christ. Sadly, when we get to telling that story, we often use a vocabulary that people are not familiar with. But what if we could talk about the promises of the gospel through the lens of home?
Last question: isn’t there a DVD video series to accompany the book?
There is! It’s meant as a teaching companion to the book, and what I especially love about the videos (and something I can claim NO credit for) are the personal stories shared in each of the five sessions. Women talk about their dreams for home, their disappointments of home. I think it makes it really relevant to our everyday lives. You can watch the trailer here
or buy the DVDs at ivpress.org